I cannot stop thinking about the suffering of Daniel Pelka, the four year old boy from Coventry who was abused, tortured and then murdered by his mother and her lover.
There is CCTV footage of Daniel on the final day of his life. His mother has arrived to collect him from primary school yet she dismissively walks ahead of the boy, her back turned to him. Daniel trails after her, a frail, emaciated figure, lost and bewildered. He hurries to catch up; he is hurrying towards death.
The Times today has published some of the texts about her son that Daniel’s mother, Magdelena Luczak, sent to her monstrous lover, Mariusz Krezolek. They provide a narrative of abuse:
“One of his hands is livid blue [because it has been repeatedly beaten] and what am I supposed to do now [sic].”
“Well now he’s unconscious because I nearly drowned him. He’s already in bed covered with the duvet and asleep and I am having some quiet.”
“We’ll deal with Rudy [Daniel] after school, he won’t see grub at all.”
Daniel’s mother delighted in starving her son – and then feeding him salt. At school he was seen scavenging in bins for food because he was so hungry. He would try to eat whatever scraps he could find. And he kept on losing weight. “He was disappearing in front of people’s eyes,” Peter Wanless, chief executive of the NSPCC said.
And yet no one intervened.
Luczak was devious and manipulative. Her son a few weeks before his death weighed little more than 2st, the weight of a toddler – but, said detective Superintendent Tim Bacon: “We are dealing with someone who was so plausible that she managed to convince paediatricians at the hospital that Daniel had an eating disorder.”
Were we meant to believe that the broken bones, the bruised hands and black eyes were the result of the same eating disorder? How did his mother account for these and why was she believed? We will know more when the serious case review is published in September.
Daniel came from a Polish-speaking family and his English was poor. This terrified, humiliated boy was in effect voiceless. He could not speak of what he suffered. Nor could he trust anyone. But his suffering was written all over his body. His teachers and the authorities should have been able to read the signs of his suffering, read what his body was telling them. He should not have been allowed to suffer and to die alone, starved for at least six months.
Cases such as Daniel’s are mercifully rare, and all the more shocking because of their extremity. But children are being abused and beaten all the time by those who should be protecting them. For some children the home is a kind of medieval prison – and the torturers are the parents.
Teachers, doctors and nursery and care workers are on the frontline but so are relatives, friends and acquaintances. What is it that they refuse to see? “Clearly people must have seen something was wrong with this boy,” Nick Clegg said today. “I think his death should be on all of our consciences.”
He’s right about that, up to a point. Those who should be feeling most guilt and regret are the friends of his mother, the teachers at the school he attended, the health workers who visited him at home in Coventry and the doctors who treated his injuries. His mother, after “nearly drowning” her son, spoke of how she could now get “some quiet”.
Let us hope that, like Macbeth, she has murdered sleep and that she will never know peace or quiet again.
Jesus said: Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven.
Pity Daniel, and pray for him – and curse those who were not there when he needed them or chose to look away or believe the wretched lies of his mother.