Stonewall's "Bigot of the Year" Award is offensive and out of date
By continuing to have a Bigot of the Year award, Stonewall is indulging in playground politics that sits ill with its new role as a facilitator of best practice in the public realm.
By Nelson Jones Published 02 November 2012 17:01
At a lavish awards ceremony at the V&A last night, the gay rights organisation Stonewall honoured Ruth Davidson, leader of the Scottish Conservatives, as its Politician of the Year. That such an award is possible shows just how much society has changed in the twenty-three years since Stonewall was founded. The idea that there would one day be an openly gay leader of a British political party - and a Tory, at that - would have seemed like a wild dream a generation ago. Indeed, it's a measure of how far we have come that an organisation that started out as a pressure group campaigning for the basic human rights of a marginalised and unpopular minority should now be staging a swanky awards ceremony at a top London venue, backed by top corporate sponsors such as Barclays and royal bankers Coutts.
Stonewall's awards are supposed to "celebrate the outstanding contribution of individuals and groups towards lesbian, gay and bisexual equality". The mood turned somewhat sour, though, when Davidson used her acceptance speech to criticise Stonewall for continuing to single out a "Bigot of the Year" alongside the awards for top entertainers, sportspeople and "heroes". Davidson argued that it was "simply wrong" to use the term bigot of opponents of same-sex marriage, as well as being counterproductive. "The case for equality," she said, "is far better made by demonstrating the sort of generosity, tolerance and love we would wish to see more of in this world."
She left the stage to a chorus of boos and jeers.
The Bigot award, meanwhile, was handed to Scotland's Cardinal Keith O'Brien, the most senior Roman Catholic clergyman in Britain, largely on the strength of his ill-advised remarks about same sex marriage earlier this year. O'Brien, you may recall, described the proposal as "a grotesque subversion of a universally accepted human right" and likened its proponents to people who would legalise slavery. Even many who shared his opposition to equal marriage were embarrassed by these comments. But the real question, perhaps, is not so much whether O'Brien is accurately described as a bigot but whether it's wise or appropriate for Stonewall to continue to single out a "bigot" for annual abuse.
The "bigot of the year" category was already controversial after the unlovely pressure group Christian Concern, and later the Catholic Herald, embarrassed some of the sponsors into threatening to withdraw support for the event. A spokesman for Barclays said that "to label any individual so subjectively and pejoratively runs contrary to our view on fair treatment." Barclays also distanced itself from the "bigot" award by stressing that its sponsorship was limited to the sports personality award. This may be technically true but is also subtly misleading, since the name Barclays appeared among the sponsors in all the awards publicity, much of which mentioned the existence of the "bigot" category.
Barclays is in a rather delicate position here. By sponsoring the Stonewall Awards it is demonstrating its commitment to equality and diversity. Indeed, until the row blew up it was not so much a case of Barclays endorsing Stonewall as Stonewall endorsing Barclays: an institution mired in claims of tax avoidance and mis-selling of insurance burnishing its progressive credentials by associating itself with a leading LGBT organisation. On the other hand, the view of same-sex marriage being denounced as "bigoted" is one which many Barclays customers will share.
Some might say that by accepting corporate sponsorship at all, Stonewall is selling out. But such sponsorship is only possible because so many of the group's original aims have already been achieved. Stonewall was founded, in 1989, in response to the Thatcher government's notorious Clause 28, a vindictive piece of lawmaking that banned the "promotion" of homosexuality in schools. In those days, while the tide was slowly turning, an unthinking homophobia pervaded much of national life. Many gay celebrities still dwelt uneasily in the closet, scared of exposure in the Sun and or the News of the World. The age of consent for gay men was still 21. There were no openly gay politicians, though plenty who were furtively and fearfully so. Local authorities that dared to suggest equality for gay and lesbian people were ridiculed as being "the loony left", while a Chief Constable (Greater Manchester's James Anderton) could go on the record describing Aids as "a self-inflicted scourge" caused by gay men "swirling about in a human cesspit of their own making."
Now that's bigotry.
Such attitudes still persist, but they are scarcely mainstream, as the ridicule that greeted O'Brien's somewhat milder comments about same-sex marriage demonstrates. Stonewall itself has diversified from its original role as a pressure group. These days, a significant proportion of its work involves giving advice to business on Equality and Diversity issues via projects such as the Diversity Champions Programme. It is part of the establishment now. It's the opponents of LGBT equality, groups like Christian Concern, that are on the margins.
In such a climate, continuing to nominate a "Bigot of the Year" suggests an organisation partly stuck in the mindset of twenty years ago. Then it stood out bravely against a society mired in casual bigotry. Now it stands firmly in the mainstream. That's a much more comfortable place in many ways, but it requires some adjustment. There's no need, these days, to indulge a victim mentality by indulging in playground insults and scapegoating. It makes Stonewall look childish and intolerant, and only serves to vindicate the "bigots". Time to grow up.
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This is more a question of the writer of the article allegiances I think.
The "Bigot of the Year award tells me that the great British sense of humour is still going strong. What is in question here is the media and politician'sense of humour.
I don't believe a "Bigot of the Year" award is out of date. The award is a humourous way to address important issues with a person who has a closed mind and will not engage. O'Brien is the one who is out of date stuck in a mindset at least 20 year ago!
Those who are quick to assign epithets to anyone propagating a different position are the real bigots. Stonewalls casual use of infantile insults are designed to close any debate down regarding the gay lobby. "homophobe" and "bigot" are control words which are toxic to weak politicians and public figures who fear for their careers. Cardinal O'Brien is to be commended for being that rare breed of leader who does not speak with forked tongue and will tell the truth regardless of the consequences.
When "a different position" is actually "telling lies to dehumanise and segregate a minority", then you might consider their position, well, bigoted?
And using extreme, fundamentalist and selective interpretations of religious texts to justify such odious anti-gay bigotry in no way makes it any more acceptable. A Cardinal claiming that same-sex relationships are tantamount to mental and spiritual abuse, or a church describing gay people as 'evil' and 'disordered' most certainly qualifies as bigotry and needs to be highlighted and exposed.
And yet, the author of this seriously misguided piece would have us believe that we in the gay community are the ones being offensive and at fault for daring to use the term 'bigot' against the likes of Cardinal O'Brien, or the Ugandan Minister who had LGBT venues raided and those present arrested, or the NI politician who described gay people as 'deviant'. None of this should be acceptable in a civilised society, and LGBT groups most certainly should not be censored for calling it what is is - bigotry.
As the writer of a much better article in this publication put it, bigotry is bigotry and those who peddle it deserve to be offended.
I am glad you are offended then Adam 80.
You ought have contested the award and had it just for yourself.
As a gay man, I strongly challenge the logic behind this article - which seems to be that we have no right to call out the worst kinds of smears directed against our community. It's as if making crass and offensive statements against a whole group of people based on their sexuality is not really bigotry at all. Yet, if some of what those nominated for Bigot of the Year had directed at another minority group, this wouldn't even be an issue. And therein lies the nub of the matter - a clear double standard which affords legitimacy to bigotry and prejudice only as long as it is directed at LGBT people. I find that view very disturbing indeed, especially when articulated by those who claim to be supporters of gay equality. (the author presumably)
I also object to this somewhat smug and patronising assumption on the part of the writer that there is no need for such an award anyway as we are already firmly part of the mainstream - well tell that to the child being bullied in school because of his/her perceived sexuality, bullying that is helped and faciliated by the kind of repugnant words and actions of the bigots Stonewall is right to draw attention to. Or the gay couples being harassed on Britain's high streets for holding hands etc.
Full equality has yet to be realised even in the UK, but in global terms, LGBT people face a battle just to be allowed exist - In Uganda for example (where one of the nominees hails from), they are proposing a bill that would sanction life imprisonment or even the death penalty for LGBT people. Is the author and our corporate 'supporters' saying thiat is not bigotry or that attention shouldn't be drawn to it? They are the uncomfortable questions not being addressed by those who seem so put out by the Stonewall award.
There is no question but that the Bigot of the Year award involves people who have gone far beyond mere disagreement with equality for ou community. The language used serves to demonise gay people, question our very humanity and give succor to those who would harm us in much more direct and violent ways. That is what is truly offensive and what writers such as the above should be discussing in this context.
What this flap does serve to highlight is the shallow and superficial nature of the support our community receives from certain quarters - the kind of individuals and groups who are happy to support us only when there are good headlines involved or brownie points to be won and not a hint of controversy involved.
But thankfully Stonewall is standing firm in this respect and will not be cowed into ignoring those forces who seek to deny what are fundamental human rights to a group of people, and whose extreme homophobia, quite incredibly, is still afforded legitimacy in a way that would not the case were we discussing other forms of prejudice. Well that is a double standard the LGBT community is not prepared to accept and we will continue to call out and expose homophobic bigotry.
'our community'
How about the community that make love to cats and dogs, are they not a community, which they could also call our community.
What about everyone's community. The Majority.
That statement is beneath contempt quite frankly and only serves to show up your own profound ignorance.
As for the majority, I can assure you most people of today do not share your obnoxious, prejudiced views. There is cross party support and a majority of public opinion in favour of full equality for LGBT people.
How distressing it must be for you to have to live in a modern, civilised society as opposed to the dark ages, which would clearly be more suited to your type of mentality.
A bigot isn't somebody who's anti gay, it's somebody who is intractable in their opinions.
Just to clarify what a bigot really is:
"A person obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices; especially: one who regards or treats the members of a group (as a racial or ethnic group) with hatred and intolerance"
It is not just someone who refuses to budge in their opinions. It is someone who refuses to budge in their prejudice against a particular group.
This is why calling Stonewall bigots for labelling someone a bigot is fallacious. Keith O'Brien has consistently expressed ignorant, prejudiced views against gay people. The bigot trousers definitely fit. Stonewall, however, are challenging his bigotry. That is not intolerance of a group - it is labelling a bigot "a bigot".
You clearly don't know what a bigot is.
'There's no need, these days, to indulge a victim mentality by indulging in playground insults and scapegoating.'
I can almost see you collapsing onto a couch, clutching your pearls as you dictated that to your factotum, before being given smelling salts. What a ridiculous over-reaction to a bit of PR folderol.
To name a man who likens same-sex marriage to child abuse a bigot seems mild indeed. Shit of the Year would be nearer the mark.
Here, here! Bonus, learned the word folderol ;-)
Bigotry is definitely not an out-dated concept in the UK: I believe it's dangerous to argue this. Until people stop killing or maiming themselves for being gay, or conceal their sexuality in false marriages bringing unhappiness to all, I believe the task of singling out and objecting to bigots spreading their manure in the public arena is a necessary - if uncomfortable - task.
Get over it: to call "bigot" is not life threatening to the perpetrators… it hardly begins to touch the real damage done to individual lives by people who espouse the sort of vile tripe that Stonewall is highlighting here.
Why should we be afraid to say the word "homophobia" when that's exactly what it is? We may have moved on from the love that dare not speak its name: but now we're not supposed to speak out when people are deliberately spreading hate.
Liberal left pussyfooting - stuff that - are we supposed to take the verbal abuse from the mainstream Catholic church lying down? They can call us evil paedophiles who tear society apart … who cause the destruction of rainforests … who threaten "ordinary" families (how?) … it goes on and on. Stonewall calls them bigots and causes all sorts of furore. COME ON, it's all so David and Goliath.
Does getting a bit of funding support from Barclays mean that Stonewall has to lose its campagining teeth? (Urm - contrast this with the funding support the Catholic church receives and it's a drop in the financing ocean). The extreme end of homophobia is what happens in Iran. Get real people - do you think this is unconnected with what comes out of the mouths of homophobes right here? This isn't whinging victimhood: homophobic hatred - under the protective veil of so-called religion - causes widespread misery in society. Really. God forbid, your son or daughter may be gay. Please think about what this means.
Thank you.
Catholicism was opposed to divorce in the same way it opposes gay marriage. I would suggest that divorce is a bigger threat to marriage but then bigotry and hate has always been the core Catholic value not ethical standards. Their ethics have always been an after the fact justification for their oppression and cruelty.
Calling a Catholic a bigot is not in itself bigotry. Bigotry is when someone is cruel to someone for an accident of birth. Nobody is born Catholic. They are raised Catholic (bullied into in most cases) and remaining Catholic in a relatively enlightened secular society is a matter of choice.
Calling a Catholic a bigot is not an insult; it's redundant since they mean the same thing (although technically Catholicism is an extreme form of bigotry).
One final key point:
Let's be clear every single Fascist leader was raised Catholic. Only one was excommunicated (and that was for marrying a Protestant). The current Pope being a fine example of that upbringing. Before se start throwing around Nazi or Fascist let's be clear they are basically just militant forms for Catholicism.
SpitFool:
Writings you gave without any accuracy.
Why attack Catholics when they are your key providers of bum meat in male colleges.
As is Eton and all the other boarding schools that are also non-Catholic.
Catholicism was opposed to divorce in the same way it opposes gay marriage. I would suggest that divorce is a bigger threat to marriage but then bigotry and hate has always been the core Catholic value not ethical standards. Their ethics have always been an after the fact justification for their oppression and cruelty.
Calling a Catholic a bigot is not in itself bigotry. Bigotry is when someone is cruel to someone for an accident of birth. Nobody is born Catholic. They are raised Catholic (bullied into in most cases) and remaining Catholic in a relatively enlightened secular society is a matter of choice.
Calling a Catholic a bigot is not an insult; it's redundant since they mean the same thing (although technically Catholicism is an extreme form of bigotry).
One final key point:
Let's be clear every single Fascist leader was raised Catholic. Only one was excommunicated (and that was for marrying a Protestant). The current Pope being a fine example of that upbringing. Before se start throwing around Nazi or Fascist let's be clear they are basically just militant forms for Catholicism.
A survey in any country will show a huge majority against homosexual men getting married.
Lesbians are probably more accepted because presumably unlike the men they are not messing around in the human waste pipe.
Stonewall is an LGB organisation. They hold no brief for trans people.
Actually they claim to do so in Scotland, and explain that, when they were founded, only trans people in Scotland wished them to be inclusive. They claim that instead they work hand in glove with trans groups in England and Wales.
How this works (other than badly) seems a puzzle. How does a group that includes trans people and issues in Scotland publish UK-wide reports on immigration, or bullying, for example, that totally exclude trans concerns? How do dub national organisations 'Diversity Champions' without assessing them on T matters, at least in Scotland? How do they hold national events such as the one reported, at which Scots are prize winners when no T people are nominated, or present?
Hair trigger sensitivity of the catholics. Do I recall that overdressed ponce Ratzinger calling me, an atheist, a nazi when he visited the uk? Ratzinger, the hitler youth. Ratzinger the pope. Now tell me who the bigots are.
Just look in the mirror and see a half-person with your fixed viewpoint, that is what a bigot is, of any calling, of any persuasion.
Hair trigger sensitivity of the catholics. Do I recall that overdressed ponce Ratzinger calling me, an atheist, a nazi when he visited the uk? Ratzinger, the hitler youth. Ratzinger the pope. Now tell me who the bigots are.
By the way, let's remember that Cardinal Keith O'Brien isn't just antigay. The USA is also one of the many things he hates. The man hates whatever is expedient and/or fashionable to hate.
Besides shouldn't the bigot award go to the muslim president of Iran Mahmoud Ahmedinijad, for the policy of stoning homosexuals to death in Iran?
Then again to pick on a christian for a lesser instance of 'homophobia' is typical of the spinlessness of the liberal -left!
If a bigot is someone who cannot tolerate others having different opinions - then stonewall = bigots.
The response to Ruth Davidson's appeal not to classify everyone opposed to same-sex marriage as bigots - ' She left the stage to a chorus of boos and jeers' - encapsulates the intolerance and bigotry of Stonewall itself.
In an democracy nobody should be above criticism not people not religions or.....deviants such as homosexuals.
Unfortunately militants like the staff of Stonewall cannot handle this fact!
There is no god. Stonewall is an example of what Chris Hedges calls "boutique activism"; feel good, self-congratulatory nonsense that does nothing but claim to drift along with the current of history-as if liberation were nothing more than a leaf on a stream.
O'Brian and Stonewall deserve each other.
'There is no god.'
If everyone who made irrelevant interruptions was 'broad-banned', atheists on the 'net would be as common as hen's teeth. It does not matter whether or not there is a deity; what may matter is whether it can be said that O'Brien represents the deity that he claims to. As his organisation is by far the one with the world's longest history of 'bigotry'— intolerance expressed in forced mass baptisms, censorship, military invasion, inquisition and alliance with totalitarian regimes, and more— it's an impossibility, for informed non-bigots. There would be no cardinals, no RCC at all, had modern European law applied where and when the RCC originated. It is the product of a police state, and has been maintained by police states into the 20th century.
This should be the retort of Stonewall to O'Brien's ironic complaining. But it won't be.
There is no god. Stonewall is an example of what Chris Hedges calls "boutique activism"; feel good, self-congratulatory nonsense that does nothing but claim to drift along with the current of history-as if liberation were nothing more than a leaf on a stream.
O'Brian and Stonewall deserve each other.
Just because it is part of some religious dogma doesn't save it from being stupid, malicious, wrong, and bigoted. In fact, those things seem to go with religion very nicely. Religion is evidence to the fact that people are capable of believing anything at all. What a joke that this clown calls himself "Christian". How strange that religious fanatics also demand that we respect them and their idiotic assertions, when obviously no respect is due. Still, better than the old days; modern secular govenments do not permit the Roman church its traditional responses to difference: torture and mass murder.
The terms 'stupid, malicious, wrong and bigoted' are all subjective and can equally be applied to your contribution. For example, you move swiftly from religion to religious fanaticism clothing it, not in truth, but with Dawkins's assertion that the latter demand respect. Similarly you castigate the Roman Catholic Church as dispensing torture and mass murder, while seeking to absolve modern secular governments of the same offences although they were characteristic of the French and Russian revolutions. Almost 7000 Christians were murdered by the Republican movement during the Spanish Civil War. You have also failed to notice that the Roman Catholic Church operated for many centuries as a secular power and its actions were secular. Meanwhile the secular state in China publicly executed Wang Zhiming during the Cultural Revolution, the El Salvador state murdered Archbishop Oscar Romero while as recently as 20o9 North Korea executed a Christian for distributing Bibles. I presume you wouldn't wish to transfer to that particular secular state. So what are we left with that you failed to notice? Power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely irrespective of the ideological parameters involved. Bigot? You most certainly are.
What crap.
Bigots are bigots are bigots.
Which public school did you go to "Nelson"?
I suspect he would prefer Stonewall to "hate the bigotry but love the bigot", just as the bigots claim to "hate the sin but love the sinner".
A bigot is a person who is intolerant of any ideas other than his or her own. Fits Stonewall and its members to a T.
Criticising bigotry, and defending a minority from bigotry, is definitely not bigotry. There is a vast difference between denouncing someone's horrible ideas, and denouncing someone for their innate sexuality. You would not call a black person bigoted for challenging a racist, and you should not do the same for gay people either.
Jason, your use of the word 'bigotry' is self-serving and subjective. Furthermore, you make an assumption that sexuality is inherent although it is possible to argue that it is a social construction designed to legitimise behaviour. The example you offer by way of comparison i.e. a black person challenging racism does not support your case. It was Stonewall members who booed and jeered Ruth Davidson's call for tolerance and dialogue. It was Stonewall members who proved themselves to be bigots.
Stonewall members exercised freedom of expression to boo a speech they didn't like. If that's bigotry, the word has ceased to have any useful meaning.
Also, to argue that race is less inherent than sexuality ignores the obvious point that it's possible to change one's race, just as it's possible to change one's appearance in other ways. Indeed, what on earth is the point of the millions spent on skin-lightening products around the world? So race can be seen as 'a social construction designed to legitimise behaviour'. Black people shouldn't really complain about racism, because they could stop the abuse and discrimination by becoming white. Your logic. Stew in it.
Of course Stonewall members had the right to boo a speech but the fact that they did only served to demonstrate their bigotry. Your perverted logic regarding race suggests you did not read, still less understand, what I wrote in the first place
Considering I AM a gay person, I am not assuming anything. It is extremely misguided to tell me I am only this way through "social construction". Do you seriously think I choose to be this way, just to legitimise deviant behaviour? That the deep love I have for my fiance is only an illusion? How ignorant and insulting. Thank you for presenting everyone with the perfect example of the very same ignorance and bigotry Stonewall has been challenging.
Jason your own sexuality does not prove it is inherent. You appear to have overlooked the salient fact that I did not suggest homosexuality was a 'social construction' . I pointed out that it is possible to argue it could be the case, as it certainly was in ancient Sparta. You are the ignorant and insulting one for misrepresenting what I wrote. For example, you wrote, 'Do you seriously think I choose to be this way, just to legitimise deviant behaviour?'. Did I suggest homosexuality was deviant behaviour? No I did not but you assumed, yet again, that I have a set of attitudes you regard as being homophobic, providing further proof of your own bigotry.
Pointing out that it is "possible to make the case" is as good as saying "the case has a grounding in reason", which it clearly does not. You are providing ammunition to an illogical, non-factual viewpoint that is used by prejudiced people to belittle and dehumanize a minority. Bigotry.
As a heterosexual, do you think you can change your natural urges to love only men? The FACT that gay people do NOT choose their sexuality in the same way heterosexual people do not choose their sexuality proves that sexuality is innate. It also proves that you are willing to speak absolute nonsense just because it fits your prejudice. Well done on calling me a bigot for defending myself from bigots.
'innate sexuality'
There's the idiotic circularity, the bigotry. The whole point made by anti-homosexual people is that homosexuality is not innate, in their view. They would not be discussing it if they thought it was innate. It's either wilful misrepresentation to equate their view with racism, or extreme ignorance.
When people are wilfully ignorant of the fact sexuality is innate and unchangeable in much the same way as ethnicity, and then use falsehoods to belittle a minority, then that is the very definition of prejudice and bigotry. Comparisons between homophobia and racism are entirely appropriate.
'the fact sexuality is innate'
That it is a fact is not proved.
While there is no specific underlying cause of homosexuality, which is likely to be determined by a variety of factors including genetics, environment and upbringing (none of which can be helped), it is a FACT that people do not choose their sexuality. I cannot choose to change my natural sexual urges in exactly the same way heterosexuals cannot change theirs. Therefore: sexuality IS innate. This is corroborated by hundreds of reputable scientific studies and health organisations, including The American Psychiatric Association, the American Psychological Association, the British Medical Association, the Royal College of Psychiatrists.
The evidence is not on your side. Be careful now, because one might think you assert falsehoods just because they fit your pre-existing prejudice.
If it is a fact that people do not (by implication cannot) choose their sexuality is So Michael Barrymore is the exception who proves the rule? There are many scientific studies (not hundreds as you suggest) of homosexuality, not all of which support your assertion that sexuality is inherent. You appear not to have read those which provide evidence you do not wish to hear. As for the professional organisations referred to, their position statements are essentially political in nature advocating the removal of barriers to equality before the law. In addition they assert that homosexuality should not be classified as a psychiatric illness which led to the reclassification in American in 1973 and adopted world wide in 1992.