Belonging to Spirit

How I found my way home and became a medium

From as far back as I can remember, I have always been aware of the spirit world. For me as a child it was normal to see colours around people that changed with their health, state of mind or mood. I was aware that I had friends that other people couldn’t see, an instinct that would prompt me to ask questions about people and usually get into trouble for it from my mother. "Children shouldn’t ask questions like that," she said, so I learned to be quiet and just observe.

But always in my quiet moments tucked up in bed, my friends would come and talk to me, share their thoughts and bring me a sense of peace and tranquility. I thought that was normal, that everyone did this, it was just my angels.

I had tried several different churches by the age of 16. I knew that I was looking for something but couldn’t seem to find where I belonged. I had even been asked on the eve of my confirmation, aged 14, by our local vicar not to go back to the church as I asked too many questions and wouldn’t just accept his word and that what he said was correct. I missed singing in the choir and being a part of the bell ringing team but not the religion. It wasn’t for me.

At 16 my father began attending one of our local Spiritualist churches, so after asking a few questions I went along to see what it was like. I expected to find darkened rooms, candles, elderly ladies dressed in black with shawls and crystal balls. Imagine my surprise to discover beautiful flowers, lights blazing, a warm welcome and a medium that looked like everyone’s favourite aunt.

Even stranger still was that as the medium came to the communication part of the service I could actually see the people in spirit that she was talking to! I watched fascinated as person after person seemed to appear, talk to the medium about themselves and their loved ones here and then beautifully fade back into the light that surrounded the medium.

I could hear what was being said and after the service asked the medium why she hadn’t given one particular name, she looked at me, smiled and said, "I didn’t hear it clearly enough, you should be looking to develop your mediumship, you can do this." I was home.

Over the next few months I continued to attend and was encouraged to learn and explore my own spirituality and very quickly discovered all that I had been pushing away for years was an integral aspect of myself that I had no option but to take hold of.

The most awesome and humbling aspect of my work is that moment when you share with another person the message from their loved one who they thought was dead and gone. To be able to give them the comfort, peace, proof and knowledge that they still live on, to see the smiles and the tears, to be able to reach out to people and ease that loss is truly one of God's blessings.

At the tender age of 17 and a half I took my first church service. My life has never been the same since. Some 30 years later I now work full-time for spirit, I travel the world teaching, healing, communicating and sharing my gift with those who choose to listen and I live my life in service to spirit and am honoured that they allow me to do so.

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Libby Clark is an Officiant of the Spiritualists National Union who has been a working Spiritualist Medium for 30 years. She is a Course Organiser / Tutor at the Arthur Findlay College, and works worldwide as a Spiritualist medium, teacher, healer, trance healer. www.libbyclark.biz
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How should Labour's disgruntled moderates behave?

The price for loyalty looks like being long-term opposition. Sometimes exiting can be brave.

When Albert O. Hirschman was writing Exit, Voice, Loyalty: Responses to decline in Firms, Organizations, and States he wasn’t thinking of the British Labour Party.  That doesn’t mean, though, that one of the world’s seminal applications of economics to politics can’t help us clarify the options open to the 80 to 90 per cent of Labour MPs who, after another week of utter chaos, are in total despair at what’s happening under Jeremy Corbyn.

According to Hirschman, people in their situation have essentially three choices – all of which stand some chance, although there are no guarantees, of turning things around sooner or later.

The first option is simply to get the hell out: exit, after all, can send a pretty powerful, market-style signal to those at the top that things are going wrong and that something has to change.

The second option is to speak up and shout out: if the leadership’s not listening then complaining loudly might mean they get the message.

The third option is to sit tight and shut up, believing that if the boat isn’t rocked it will somehow eventually make it safely to port.

Most Labour MPs have so far plumped for the third course of action.  They’ve battened down the hatches and are waiting for the storm to pass.  In some ways, that makes sense.  For one thing, Labour’s rules and Corbyn’s famous ‘mandate’ make him difficult to dislodge, and anyone seen to move against him risks deselection by angry activists.

For another, there will be a reckoning – a general election defeat so bad that it will be difficult even for diehards to deny there’s a problem: maybe Labour has to do ‘déjà vu all over again’ and lose like it did in 1983 in order to come to its senses. The problem, however, is that this scenario could still see it stuck in opposition for at least a decade. And that’s presuming that the left hasn’t so effectively consolidated its grip on the party that it can’t get out from under.

That’s presumably why a handful of Labour MPs have gone for option two – voice.  Michael Dugher, John Woodcock, Kevan Jones, Wes Streeting and, of course, John Mann have made it pretty clear they think the whole thing’s a mess and that something – ideally Jeremy Corbyn and those around him – has to give.  They’re joined by others – most recently Stephen Kinnock, who’s talked about the party having to take ‘remedial action’ if its performance in local elections turns out to be as woeful as some are suggesting.  And then of course there are potential leadership challengers making none-too-coded keynote speeches and public appearances (both virtual and real), as well as a whole host of back and frontbenchers prepared to criticise Corbyn and those around him, but only off the record.

So far, however, we’ve seen no-one prepared to take the exit option – or at least to go the whole hog. Admittedly, some, like Emma Reynolds, Chuka Umunna, Dan Jarvis, Yvette Cooper, and Rachel Reeves, have gone halfway by pointedly refusing to serve in Corbyn’s Shadow Cabinet.  But nobody has so far declared their intention to leave politics altogether or to quit the party, either to become an independent or to try to set up something else.

The latter is easily dismissed as a pipe-dream, especially in the light of what happened when Labour moderates tried to do it with the SDP in the eighties.  But maybe it’s time to think again.  After all, in order to refuse even to contemplate it you have to believe that the pendulum will naturally swing back to Labour at a time when, all over Europe, the centre-left looks like being left behind by the march of time and when, in the UK, there seems precious little chance of a now shrunken, predominantly public-sector union movement urging the party back to the centre ground in the same way that its more powerful predecessors did back in the fifties and the late-eighties and nineties. 

Maybe it’s also worth wondering whether those Labour MPs who left for the SDP could and should have done things differently.  Instead of simply jumping ship in relatively small numbers and then staying in parliament, something much bolder and much more dramatic is needed.  What if over one hundred current Labour MPs simultaneously declared they were setting up ‘Real Labour’?  What if they simultaneously resigned from the Commons and then simultaneously fought scores of by-elections under that banner?

To many, even to ask the question is to answer it. The obstacles – political, procedural, and financial – are formidable and forbidding.  The risks are huge and the pay-off massively uncertain.  Indeed, the whole idea can be swiftly written off as a thought-experiment explicitly designed to demonstrate that nothing like it will ever come to pass.

On the other hand, Labour MPs, whether we use Hirschman’s three-way schema or not, are fast running out of options.  The price for loyalty looks like being long-term opposition.  Voice can only do so much when those you’re complaining about seem – in both senses of the word – immovable.  Exit, of course, can easily be made to seem like the coward’s way out. Sometimes, however, it really is the bravest and the best thing to do.

Tim Bale is professor of politics at QMUL. His latest book, Five Year Mission, chronicles Ed Miliband's leadership of the Labour party.