Do pro-choice feminists really speak for women?
The majority of those who want a reduction in abortion time-limits are women.
By Nelson Jones Published 06 October 2012 14:56
The new and somewhat accident-prone Health Secretary Jeremy Hunt has stoked the embers of the ever smouldering abortion debate by expressing his personal view that the default time limit for elective termination should be cut from the current 24 weeks to 12. While 12 weeks is not exceptionally low by continental European standards (indeed, it is more-or-less the European norm, being the limit in France, Germany, Italy, Denmark and several other countries) it is outside the normal terms of debate in the UK, where calls for a reduction have tended to coalesce around twenty weeks, the figure supported on the radio this morning by Home Secretary Theresa May.
If Twitter has a collective mind, it's distinctly pro-choice, so it's hardly surprising that when news of Hunt's statement emerged late last night it was greeted by an overwhelming chorus of boos, above all from feminists. The Guardian's feminist-in-chief Suzanne Moore tweeted that she was "cheered by the gut reaction towards Hunt here," adding that "the Tories will not win their war on women." Two incredibly lazy but widespread assumptions combine in the notion of a "Tory war on women". Firstly that the divide on abortion is primarily political (and left-right) rather than moral, and that the pro-choice position is progressive and the pro-life one reactionary. Secondly, that the pro-choice case is the pro-women, feminist one and its opponents are motivated by hatred of women, or at the very least by an inherently misogynistic desire to control women's lives.
The reaction was the same earlier this week, when Maria Miller (Hunt's successor as Culture Secretary, who is also minister for women) told the Telegraph that she favoured a 20 week limit. Describing calls to reduce the time limit "a key flashpoint in ongoing attempts to chip away at a woman’s right to choose", Zoe Stavri articulated the feminist orthodoxy in the New Statesman. "To support women," she declared, "you must support the choices they make about their own body, whether it’s something you approve of or not." Miller was "no friend of women" and had no right being women's minister, since her views were "anything but pro-women."
To be a feminist, one assumes, is to support women. That doesn't mean, of course, that men can't support feminist platforms, or even be feminists (though there are some radical feminists who argue that a male feminist is a contradiction in terms, and there's a more widespread view that even sympathetic men are too embedded in their own gender privilege properly to appreciate what it's like for women.) No feminist would claim that all or even most women were de facto feminists, though they might claim that all women should be. There are plenty of female misogynists, women who collaborate with "the patriarchy", women who make life worse for other women, women who vote Conservative, and so on, in the feminist demonology. Indeed, feminists reserve a particular and gleeful bile for these traitresses to their gender - above all for female Tory politicians such as Nadine Dorries - that a visitor from the planet Mars might think looked just a tad misogynistic.
But even allowing for the fact that all women aren't feminists, one would expect to find a considerable overlap between feminism and the concerns and views of women more generally. If, as they believe, feminists are working to advance the cause of women, one would expect feminist arguments to find a particular resonance among women and a greater degree of opposition or indifference from men. In would be highly paradoxical if feminist arguments turned out to be more popular, on average, with men than with women.
There is indeed a gender divide on the abortion debate in Britain, and it is especially stark in relation to the question of term limits. A YouGov poll in January found that of the 37% of Britons who favoured a lowering of the 24 week limit (34% supported the status quo) the majority were women. In total, twice as many women as men (49% as opposed to 24%) wanted to see a lower limit. There was also an interesting age difference: among the younger age group (18-24) support for a lower limit stood at 43%, whereas in the two older age groups it was 35%. Strikingly, support for a reduction to 20 weeks or below was highest among people who expressed a preference for Labour rather than the two other main parties - which again fits ill with the concept of a "Tory war on women".
This gender distinction seems to be consistent. An Angus Reid poll in March found an even more dramatic difference, with 35% of men favouring a reduction below 24 weeks and 59% of women doing so. Back in 2006, a MORI poll published by the Guardian found that 47% of women wanted to lower the limit, and a further 10% would ban abortion outright.
I wondered aloud about this paradoxical situation on Twitter last night. Pro-choice feminists, I noted, almost never acknowledge the perhaps counterintuitive fact that the majority of those who support their position on abortion time-limits are men, and the majority of those who want a reduction are women. Why are men more "feminist" that women, at least in this one area? A number of responders simply refused to believe it. Someone suggested that "kyriachy operates by convincing disenfranchised groups to defend the system," which may or may not be the same point as "women have always hated women far more effectively than men have", which was how another woman put it.
Another suggestion was that women are more likely to have strong opinions one way or another, since the issue affects them most directly. Even women who have never had an abortion may have contemplated one, or have had a pregnancy scare, or at the very least have thought through the issues. To have, or not to have, an abortion is a question that almost every woman might potentially have to ask herself, and no man will. Men might well consider that it is not their place to tell women what to do "with their own bodies", while women may have no such inhibition. What is less obvious is why the fact that abortion is so much more personal for women would lead a majority of them to superficially unfeminist conclusions.
One respondent (a man) suggested that "because women with children have experienced being pregnant, therefore they are more aware that the foetus is alive." It would certainly be interesting to know how the opinions of women who had children compared with those who did not. The only hint from the polls was in that striking figure from YouGov that women under 24 were more strongly in favour of lowering the time limit than those in older age-groups who are much more likely to be mothers themselves - which is quite the opposite of what my interlocutor would have expected.
Women who favour further restrictions on abortion might well deny the assumption that a pro-choice position is a feminist one, claiming instead that a liberal abortion regime benefits men. If women have easy (and socially unstigmatised) access to abortion, then men may feel less responsibility for the women they get pregnant or for any resulting child. Men are likely to feel less pressingly the physical and psychological consequences of abortion. So they will be only to happy to concede women's right to choose to terminate a pregnancy, and fear the implications for themselves of more legal restrictions. Such a view is not unknown even in radical feminist circles. Catherine McKinnon once wrote that "abortion facilitates women's heterosexual availability" and "frees male sexual aggression."
Or perhaps it's just that, on average, men are more responsive to abstract arguments that tend to favour the principle of choice and personal autonomy, while women (again, on average) may be more swayed by emotive images of unborn children with fingernails and smiles.
One thing that does seem clear to me is that the pro-choice position depends less on a feminist argument than on a libertarian one. It says that a woman is, first and foremost, her own person, belonging neither to her family nor to her community or religion nor to her biological destiny but to herself. It asserts the primacy of the individual over the community and offers a scientifically reductionist view of the foetus as being essentially a biological fact and not yet a human being with rights. Research consistently shows that men are more responsive than women to libertarian arguments; women's instincts tend more to the communitarian. So perhaps we should expect men to "get" the pro-choice case more readily than women, despite the assumption that pro-life is anti-women. In this matter at least feminism goes with the grain of male nature and against the female.
But hang on a minute. Isn't libertarianism supposed to be right-wing? Aren't pro-choice feminists predominantly of the left? Is it not true that the most vocal campaigns for abortion restriction are rooted on the political right, especially on the religious right? It is. I merely point out the paradox. I do not purport to account for it.
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There are a couple of points I would like to address in this piece. The contention that ‘men are in favour of abortion’ is not a legitimate one from the data he cites. In fact, in almost all of the questions concerning abortion, in the Angus Reid poll at least, the only question where more women than men are in favour of restrictions is the one about time limits. Additionally, responding that one is not in favour of reducing the time limit is not the same thing as saying one is in favour of abortion. A more reasonable conclusion looking at the responses to the other questions is that a significant number of men who are not in favour of abortion under any circumstances answered that they are not in favour of reducing time limits, presumable as, in their view, this puts an outright ban out of reach. But it is the logic of the argument that unless men fear the responsibility of child-rearing, they will be siring bastards left, right and centre with gay abandon, leaving the poor women with the trauma of abortion that is most skewed. It’s somewhat misandrist at the very least, and poses the rather implausible contention that a man who would otherwise engage in unprotected sex with a woman careless of whether or not she becomes pregnant would be stopped in his tracks by the anticipation that the pregnancy cannot be terminated. In reality, men who have caused unwanted pregnancies throughout history have always done so, confident in the knowledge that the child is deemed by society to be the mother’s problem. Pre-pill, it was the knowledge that the social stigma was almost entirely hers. Post-pill, the knowledge that the decision to terminate or otherwise is also hers. I suspect that men who father unwanted pregnancies are simply taking the risk of the pregnancy itself, and do not consider the option to terminate or otherwise until the pregnancy happens.
Turning away from the practicality, in moral terms, what is being proposed by the argument that more men favour late-term abortion than women is to make the women who would choose a later abortion responsible for the sexual behaviour of men. And not just the man who fathered her child, but, if time limits were to be restricted on the grounds that easy access to abortion facilitates “male sexual aggression”, then all men as represented by a hypothetical sexually aggressive man only restrained by fear of causing a pregnancy. This alarmingly conflates legislation’s ability to “send a moral message” to society in general and those men (and women) whose behaviour in causing the pregnancy in the first place is so reprehensible that the only fitting punishment is an unwanted child, and legislation to promote the rights of individual women. The logical result of this is we end up having to explain to a rape victim 15 weeks into a consequent pregnancy that she should not be allowed her post 12 week termination because to do so would support male sexual aggression. That is making this woman responsible for not just the sexual behaviour of her rapist, but for the sexual behaviour of all men. This is not just the worst type of misogyny and victim-blaming, but profoundly logically and morally incoherent.
Surely if you believe in a woman’s right to choose, you are making a statement about a woman’s sovereignty over her own body. That right to choose extends to all aspects of the reproductive journey. It seems absurd to promote a woman’s right to choose not to have sex with a man (and lets leave aside the alarmingly regular occurrence of that choice making absolutely no difference to whether or not sex takes place) by taking away a woman’s right to choose what to do with her own body. A society that says that a woman does not enjoy ownership over her own body to terminate an unwanted pregnancy implicitly begs the question as to who does enjoy that ownership. It becomes something that others can assert, and that is a culture that supports rape. Making inroads into a woman’s right to choose means diminishing all her choices, and that includes the choice not to have sex at all.
Jones is not averse to drawing presumptuous conclusions or making drastic imaginative leaps from the limited polling data available to him. He makes the assumption that 47% of women who want a reduction have come to this opinion on the basis of their empathy for women faced with the decision. On what basis does he presume to identify the reasoning of these women? He knows only how they responded to the question, not why. “on average, men are more responsive to abstract arguments that tend to favour the principle of choice and personal autonomy, while women (again, on average) may be more swayed by emotive images of unborn children with fingernails and smiles.” Not that there’s anything wrong with any woman coming to her own conclusion that abortion is wrong or that the time limit ought to be reduced on that basis, but his assumption that this is the motivation of women in supporting time limits is patronising and generalising.
Jones, despite making his own fair share of “lazy assumptions” is quick to criticise feminists for doing so. He states, as fact, that the divide on abortion is moral rather than political. This is profoundly odd, and not very useful other than to his rather convoluted attempt to swap the badges of ‘progressive and reactionary’. It is a basic tenet of first and second wave feminism – that the personal is political. There is no such thing as a moral debate that is not also a political debate, nor is there such a thing as a political debate that is not also a moral one.
The most cogent argument he makes in the piece is the conclusion: “One thing that does seem clear to me is that the pro-choice position depends less on a feminist argument than on a libertarian one. It says that a woman is, first and foremost, her own person, belonging neither to her family nor to her community or religion nor to her biological destiny but to herself. It asserts the primacy of the individual over the community and offers a scientifically reductionist view of the foetus as being essentially a biological fact and not yet a human being with rights. Research consistently shows that men are more responsive than women to libertarian arguments; women's instincts tend more to the communitarian. So perhaps we should expect men to "get" the pro-choice case more readily than women, despite the assumption that pro-life is anti-women. In this matter at least feminism goes with the grain of male nature and against the female.
“But hang on a minute. Isn't libertarianism supposed to be right-wing? Aren't pro-choice feminists predominantly of the left? Is it not true that the most vocal campaigns for abortion restriction are rooted on the political right, especially on the religious right? It is. I merely point out the paradox. I do not purport to account for it.”
Jones is evidently pleased with his rhetorical triumph in arguing that white is black, that feminists are right-wing liberatarians and that the soi-disant “pro-life” movement are the caring communitarians. But copy his conclusion, and do a find-and-replace. Swap “communitarian” for “authoritarian”, and “libertarian” for “liberal”, and we abruptly cut short his rhetorical look through the looking glass. Pro-choice are once again ‘left’ and pro-life ‘ right’. He is simply using terms so loosely as to strip them of all real meaning. That is why he cannot account for the ‘paradox’ he thinks he has found. It is not there.
The other point to address is one that Jones seems to think of as the dangerous assertion that a woman is first and foremost, her own person, belonging neither to her family nor to her community or religion nor to her biological destiny but to herself. He pejoratively labels this argument ‘libertarian’ but is it not also feminist, and beyond the very basis of liberalism, democracy or any number of basic underpinnings of modern British society? I think almost everyone, whatever their position on abortion and time limits, would view any assertion to the contrary as monstrous. It is the basic political presumption behind the American and French Revolutions, and the United Nations Universal Declaration of Human Rights. To deny women this degree of self-determination is to advocate the slavery of women, for if a woman does not “is first and foremost belong … neither to her family nor to her community or religion nor to her biological destiny but to herself”, then to whom does she belong? Jones seems to think that is to her “her family [or] to her community or religion [or] to her biological destiny” none of which alternatives are anything but abhorrent. Girls, today, in this country and around the world do in practical terms belong to their “families and communities and religions” and are forced into marriage and into the arms of an unwanted biological destiny. I am glad that I live in a society that Jones condemns as Libertarian that does not condone or endorse such things.
There is an honest, reasonable and legitimate way to be pro-life, and it’s the one everyone on both sides of the abortion debate shares. It’s the one that says to women whose pregnancies have developed past 24 weeks “I believe that you, as a woman, unfortunately, for a brief period as set out by law, should rightly in as limited a sense as possible, lose some sovereignty and self-determination over your own body. This is in accordance with basic principles of human rights – that no rights are absolute and are limited and constrained by the rights of others. The child growing inside you has attained a stage of development where its humanity and thus assumption of human rights are incontrovertible. It has acquired the right to life, notwithstanding its biological dependence upon you. “ That is the law at present. 24 weeks is, of course, an arbitrary time at which the switch from absolute to limited sovereignty takes place, and the debate will always be there, as medical science tells us more about foetal development, the point at which a collection of cells becomes a human being will change conceptually. Added to this, since the Pelagian Controversy, almost all Christians have sided with St. Augustine that the soul is created at the moment of conception. For believers, therefore, an embryo must have full human rights. But Augustine’s position on the creation of the soul led to one other conclusion that has profoundly affected our thinking in the West, and that is original sin. The conflict between the Christian’s fundamental belief in the dignity of human life from the moment of conception whilst that conception is simultaneously an act of evil is something that those of us who do not share their beliefs cannot understand. I would argue that the way in which the Doctrine of Original Sin explicitly or implicitly continuously returns the issue of life in the womb to whether or not the sex that began the pregnancy was morally acceptable automatically makes those who base their opposition to abortion on Christian religious conviction misogynist, but it does not mean that all who oppose abortion, particularly in the late term are misogynists.
Oh, please do bring back 'charity boards'. They knew how to deal with scheming young women and unscrupulous mothers raising families. There are a lot of charitable women out there who just can't wait to help. Honest to God! Just like the list for the British hangman's job - infinite.
Men are much too prone to be influenced by a demure expression or tears. 'Butter wouldn't melt!' Ah, Sweet Charity!
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Firstly, there's a massive difference between honestly wanting the time limit lowered and dishonestly using that as a way of winning a battle in a campaign to outlaw abortion completely. Perhaps women favour the former, but how many favour the latter? Because seldom, if ever, does an MP raise abortion as an issue without having a religious agenda that involves banning it completely. The fact that this agenda is cloaked in a smokescreen of chat about 'viability' and medical science shouldn't deceive us.
I'm wondering if the differing views on abortion between men and women could be, at least in part, due to the fact that women on the average are more religious than men. They would be more likely than men to find themselves in a pew listening to someone sounding off about the evil of abortion.
I wouldn't be surprised if more women than men also supported statements like 'women who sleep around are sluts and should change their ways' - when you know that you would be demonized for doing something, it can create the psychological impetus to distance yourself from it completely, whereas men may use language like 'slut' and 'whore' (thus creating a keen awareness in women that they may be judged) but not necessarily strongly believe that women who have multiple sexual partners are inferior.
So it is by no means clear that because more women believe something than men do, that their beliefs are actually in line with what is best for women.
What would be a useful contribution to the debate is some statistics / surveys concerned when fetuses tend to be aborted and why. I can see the most commonly cited arguments on both sides, but it would be helpful to have some information about what currently happens in reality in order to take up an informed stance on the issue.
For a start, it would be helpful to define "elective termination" - does it include or exclude terminations based upon the predicted health of the fetus? I'd assume those fetuses unlikely to survive for long if carried to term would be excluded, but what about fetuses discovered to have a disability?
Knowing the reasons for termination would also be useful - as well as changed mind / medical issues / circumstances of conception, I'd imagine finances / post-conception relationship problems / security of environment / perceived ability to adequately care for the child could also be potential reasons (there are probably many more!) - but how common are each of these?
The Truth is that every woman speaks for herself and no one can speak for her and she cannot speak for anyone else.
There is not one single woman herd, everyone is different. No one speaks for anyone but themselves, and I am a bit sick that a certain faction of society whether right/left feminist or religious is suddenly given the media position that they speak for me, which they do not.
Let's speak for the position or argument. I believe people need to take responsibility in sex and whether or not to get pregnant. if mistakes or accidents too happen then people need to make their mind up soon and not dither it out for weeks. Not good for anyone. and I have seen feminist women who are so bitter and power struck that they purposely do not use contraception. Know how much their partner would like a baby. string him along for months that the baby is going to be born and then purposely and spitefully invite him to attend the abortion advice clinic where they arrange and discuss an abortion in front of him knowing he cannot say anything. There is a lot of tricks out there and not everyone who is pro-women is not necessarily a raving nutter.
Also, I attended the Anti Pope demo when he came down. I went to a Protest the Pope do at the securlairist hall. Amazingly, although there was a special contibgent from the children who had been abused the whole comedy was about disposing of children and how children ate not needed and pretending to lead them away to be hurt. Then in the march I was walking aling with pro feminsist who had one anti child and pro-child abuse joke after another.
I and others found it very upsetting. We do not all think the same, and no woman or person speaks for me, except me.
Pavlova, what sort of "feminist" wants women to die from backstreet abortions?! Apart from a bizarro world variety, one suspects. So-called "anti-abortion feminist" organisations seem to exist for little other reason to oppose abortion and little else.
The trouble with this article is that is implies the two positions (pro-choice and anti-choice/pro-life) are equal or similar-but-opposite. This isn't the case. Position 1 (pro-life) wants to force people to do something with their body that they don't want to do (the physical and psychological effects will last for years, and the health risks are very real). The other position says "if you don't want to do it then don't, but don't tell me what to do with my own body". Foetuses are not 'tortured', that's emotive nonsense. At least, no more than a baby is tortured by vaginal birth!
I'd also suggest that the fact that men seem to find pro-choice easier to understand than some women might be because men (even today) tend to be pushed towards science. They (scientific minds, male and female) tend to see a blastocyst instead of 'baby'. They might want that to become a baby, but it isn't necessarily right away there in their minds that a tiny collection of cells is a 'baby'.
(Apparently my comment was way too long! So it's broken up).
It's easy to stay 'stop sleeping around' but it's very rare abortion is used as standard birth control (and women who go for abortions are given education about contraception too!). Rape is an often-used example. For some women they can find something good - or at least not horrible - in letting an innocent baby be born. For others the thought of carrying their attacker's seed inside their bodies for 9 months is horrific enough to induce depression, self-harm, and even suicidal thoughts/attempts. Let's not forget, the father, if his identity is known, *will* have legal rights/access to his child regardless of how the child is conceived. And what of women in abusive relationships who need to be able to get away without being tied to their abuser for life?
Or women who find they could die if the pregnancy continues?
What about women who want to be able to have a loving, intimate relationship with their husband, despite having health problems that would make carrying and birthing a baby (or indeed caring for and raising one - you don't get as much help as you'd think as a disabled mother) dangerous, or simply impossible? What if they use contraception and still get pregnant because nothing's 100%? As we've seen in the USA, once you start putting limits on some things, the next step is to increase those limits, make it harder and harder to have the choice what happens to your own body and your life. In Texas, women are already turning to 'backstreet' options of un-prescribed drugs to try and abort by themselves because they can't access safe, legal services.
91% of abortions in the UK already happen before 12 weeks. The others are almost exclusively health-related or women who didn't realise they were pregnant right away (if your periods are irregular this is easier than you'd think, a friend of mine didn't have a clue until she was nearly 16 weeks).
Lowering the time limit to 12 weeks would do very little, especially if exceptions were made for serious health problems, except trap a small number of women who couldn't access the help in the first 12 weeks. Despite what the politicians think, the British Medical Council doesn't agree that science has changed to the point of lowering the time limit on abortions. Leave it as it is.
As for women who are against abortion, the answer is simple. Don't have one. For full disclosure, I don't know if I could have one - I've not been in that situation - but I sure as heck want the option there in case I need it.
Why does survivability have anything to do with it?
After all, we could save the NHS a lot of money by finding everyone in a hospital bed who could not survive without help, bashing a hole in their skull, sucking their brains out with a vacuum cleaner and dumping the remains in a medical waste bag!
As soon as a viable foetus acquires a working responsive nervous system, it is a genetically distinct living person, and killing it is murder.
If that is inconvenient for some women who think their right to shag around is more important then another person's right to live (what if the foetus is female?), well, tough. Time to grow up and act like an adult that understands that actions have consequences.
"As soon as a viable foetus acquires a working responsive nervous system, it is a genetically distinct living person, and killing it is murder."
i note from your random use of biological terms that you are quite confused. perhaps you can clarify this a little;
1) "a viable foetus" means what exactly? you should know that 1 in 3 pregnancies abort spontaneously, so pls define your terms.
2) "a working responsive nervous system". at 24 weeks this is most certainly not what we have to deal with. instead we can expect deafness, blindness, incomplete digestive system, cerebral palsy etc etc.
3) "a genetically distinct living person". that's just gobbledygook. all pregnancies have a unique genetic code. and of course at 24 weeks even survival is hardly a given.
"Time to grow up and act like an adult that understands that actions have consequences."
first though you need to do some homework so you don't come across ignorant and hysterical, though you are far from alone on this thread in that department.
It's interesting that more woman than men favour lower abortion limits. I've never heard that before and would be interested in finding out more. Surprised that I've never come across it before now.
Libertarianism is more of an extreme left-wing position than a right-wing position. It essentially believes you can't force people to do things against their will.
Left wingers don't believe you can't force people to do things against their will.
Maybe not "'can't", but certainly "shouldn't".
I think the other side of this debate is whether the Catholic hierarchy speaks for all Catholics when it comes to abortion, either. Note the existence of the US-based Catholics for Free Choice organisation.
The abortion limit should be based on a formula. As medicine improves the limit should be adjusted down. If not then why not allow abortions at 30 weeks?
Abortions is an incredibly painful event for the fetus which suffers a lingering death as it is tortured. We would not treat a dog like this yet its OK to by cruel to human babies like it. Does not surprise me that men don't mind abortion.
Id suggest we should move to
- 20 weeks with 2 doctors signatures
- 24 weeks with 2 doctors + consultant pediatrician to confirm it is in the interests of the child
"Abortions is an incredibly painful event for the fetus which suffers a lingering death as it is tortured."
this is an outrageous lie. i now realise why i couldn't get any sense out of you on the related threads about this topic; you are a barefaced liar, period.
and as for not treating animals as you believe we treat a foetus at 24 week, only a sadist would ensure that we sentence more humans to immense suffering during their brief severely handicapped lives.
you disgust me Indu.
"Or perhaps it's just that, on average, men are more responsive to abstract arguments that tend to favour the principle of choice and personal autonomy"
Or perhaps it's just that, on average, men are more responsive to any argument that tends to favour the principle of lack of personal responsibility for undesired offspring.
Thanks for contributing nothing.
Really?
So men don't try to avoid taking responsibility for pregnancies or babies?
There isn't a whole artistic genre centering on men gurning over getting stitched up by women wanting commitment?
Pregnant women and young families don't get abandoned by boyfriends and husbands?
Marriage was never invented to tie men into committed parental relationships?
Shotgun marriages never happened?
Men don't seek DNA tests to prove they aren't the fathers?
Sperm donations didn't plummet when the right to anonymity was removed in the UK?
Men don't have an expectation that women will take the morning after pill or abort if there is a contraception "mistake"?
Women don't confide in one another that they feel coerced into getting rid of the baby for fear of losing their partner?
Men don't say "she chose to have the baby" if they don't do so?
There isn't a branch of male theory that says if women don't abort, men shouldn't be held financially responsible for them?
Thanks for your informed contribution.
To say most men are irresponsible, as you do in you comment, is to contribute nothing.
In your follow up comment you try and point to the worst of men to justify what you’ve said. But you original comment remains, condemning the majority of men as irresponsible.
Yours is a comment not informed by reality, but by laziness and anger. Whatever it is that some man did to you once, you can’t blame most men for it. You should seek help for a mental healthcare professional.
"Men might well consider that it is not their place to tell women what to do "with their own bodies""
Err. Seriously?
Um, yes? Why is this such a shocking statement?
They not only don't speak for all women, they don't speak for all feminists.
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"Two incredibly lazy but widespread assumptions combine in the notion of a "Tory war on women". Firstly that the divide on abortion is primarily political (and left-right) rather than moral, and that the pro-choice position is progressive and the pro-life one reactionary."
It is disingenuous to oppose political and moral categories. There are a number of academic studies showing that politics and ethics are intimately linked. Try looking at Jonathan Haidt's research on the morality of social conservatives and liberals (he has a TED talk if you don't like reading).
do you have evidence that abortion is primarily political (and left-right)?