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If I can’t wear a short skirt, I don’t want your revolution

Advising women to avoid arousing potential rapists is a gross misunderstanding of the nature of sexual violence.

This time last year, a friendly handbook on what to do in case of riot or revolution would have been a joke, something you might buy in a gallery gift shop for the sort of friend who owns too many designer cardigans. This year, with various European cities still smoking and shops still boarded up across London after the August riots, the irony has rather faded.

Now, the prominent internet activist group Anonymous, which assisted dissidents in Egypt, Libya, Tunisia and elsewhere, has published a Survival Guide for Citizens in a Revolution, intended, quite seriously, "for citizens who feel they are about to be caught up in a violent uprising". I don't know about you, but I'm starting to get that feeling every time I watch Question Time.

Some of the advice, presented with helpful illustrations of stylised anarchists being beaten bloody by cartoon lawmen, is indisputable. It shouldn't take a genius to work out that if there's chaos on the streets, it might be a good idea to pack essential documents and wear sensible shoes. After all, anyone who turns up to a revolution in Manolos is probably either dangerously stupid or the dictator everyone is trying to depose, both of which are great reasons to lie down in a dark, tunnel-like space until it's all over. A whole page of the guide, however, is dedicated to a ten-point plan for avoiding rape, and includes the following advice: "try to appear undesirable and unattractive", "never go out alone" and "do not wear skirts".

The people who wrote this guide mean well, as do most men who instruct women to live in fear for their own good. In normal circumstances, the imprecation to "never provoke" could be read as ugly, common-or-garden victim-blaming, of the type that the ITV presenter Eamonn Holmes employed this past week when he joked, after interviewing a female rape survivor: "I hope you take taxis now."

Victim-blaming is a part of rape culture that implies that sexual violence is women's fault for daring to walk in public spaces, use public transport or dress or behave in a way that might arouse or anger a potential assailant, rather than the fault - always and only - of the attackers themselves.
The authors of the guide take pains to reassure us that these hypothetical circumstances are not normal: "what might be OK in a stable society" - wearing clothes that show your thighs, for instance - "will get you in deep trouble in times when there is no backed law enforcement".

In times of social unrest, it is implied, the usual rules do not apply. This is the explanation for doling out precisely the same warning to self-police
that women have been given for centuries, in peacetime and in wartime.

“Provocation"

In a situation beyond law and order, it might be just as appropriate to counsel potential rape victims to grab the nearest sliver of burning government building and use it to skewer the rapist through his shrivelled, woman-hating heart. Either way, advising women to avoid arousing potential rapists is a gross misunderstanding of the nature of sexual violence, especially in conflict situations. For the half-million women raped by rival militias in the Democratic Republic of Congo over the past decade, sexual violence has little or nothing to do with physical attraction: rape is a weapon of war, a tool of humiliation, power and control.

Shortly after the revolution in Egypt, hundreds of women were assaulted in Tahrir Square by the same men they had stood beside only weeks earlier to overthrow a corrupt regime. Their only "provocation" was to dare to assemble in celebration of International Women's Day. It was the first inkling we got that there might be more to creating a free Egypt than ousting Hosni Mubarak. These things don't "just happen" in disorderly situations. These things happen because some men believe that they have the right to police and punish the bodies of women.

Until they stop doing so, any revolution will be incomplete, because women are not just afterthoughts in the global fight against tyranny and austerity. Any "revolution in favour of the people", of the sort that Anonymous anticipates in its guide, will not be worth having if it does not agitate for social, political and sexual liberation for every single one of its members. To paraphrase Emma Goldman: if I can't wear a short skirt, I don't want to be part of your revolution.

Tags: Occupy London  Rape  Protest

93 comments

Vicky Ford's picture

Thank you for writing this. I'm not reading the other comments because I know the majority of what I'll find. But as a survivor, as a feminist, and as a woman I thank you.

Willard van Omnomnom Quine's picture

To be fair to Anyonymous, drooling imbeciles though they may often be, they've done genuine harm to an organisation in Scientology that really does deserve to be destroyed.

Billy Blofeld's picture

"for citizens who feel they are about to be caught up in a violent uprising". I don't know about you, but I'm starting to get that feeling every time I watch Question Time'

I see that the recent riot deaths have faded in Laurie's mind and she is beginning to warm again to her favourite topic of riot incitement.

Oh how she loves to build up the romance of riots and stoke tension and the casual acceptance of "protest" violence from her New Statesman Pulpit.

Editors - Can we please have Hackney Grandmother Pauline Pearce replace Laurie Penny?

Kite's picture

"spouting it like some silly little student girl debases not only you but the entire movement."

Classic derailing tactic *slow clap* Not only do you berate the author for assuming readers might have something to learn about sexism, you grossly perpetuate it yourself. Plus classic concern troll move. Slick one. You're really very unperceptive. And you'd be funny if you weren't everywhere.

Fraziel1's picture

The problem with articles like this, and feminists in general, is that they look at the world through idealistic goggles and think of things as how they would like them to be, not as they actually are. The Ken Clarke uproar wrecently as a prime example of their idiocy. He was absolutely bang on with his comments but the silly feminists were practically burning their bras in protest. There are different degrees of every time of crime, why should rape be any different? It is as if common sense has deserted them

Dan Ladds's picture

Cas:
"Repeating it doesn't help the advice reach any more people - all it does is to place (more) pressure on those who would like to choose otherwise."

Disagree. There's plenty of good advice in other areas of life that has to be repeated. It shouldn't be shoved down anyone's throats, but it should be available.

Once again, I don't think we should be telling women what to wear, but there's nothing wrong with telling people as a whole that sticking together makes them less likely to be the victim of crime. That is a fact - telling them otherwise is factually wrong.

"'Look out,' it says. 'You should have known better.' And that clause will be invoked if something goes wrong"

Statistically speaking a women who walks through a risky neighbourhood alone at night is more likely to be sexually assaulted than another who does not. It shouldn't be that way, but it is. It doesn't at all mean that it was her fault if she does and nobody should blame her afterwards, but that doesn't change the statistical fact.

How far do we go? Do we lie and tell women everything is fine? If a friend of mine decides to walk through a neighbourhood I know to be dangerous, should I refrain from warning them? because if I do and something happens, I'll have blamed them in advance?

If you advise someone that something might be dangerous, something bad happens to them, and someone else comes and blames them for not taking your advice; that isn't your fault.

We can't ignore facts in favour of ideology. That's makes us no better than conservatives. We shouldn't try to enforce what women are "allowed to do" but we shouldn't lie to them either. You can inform someone of a statistical reality without assigning blame to them.

Susan O'Neill's picture

"Susan, I see Flashbuck has shown up to get his pay for the day by making the right look bad. Sadly, this means any hope of civil discussion has fled."

I'm afraid that hope was long gone already, on account of you saying extraordinarily offensive and ridiculous things like this:

"So what you ACTUALLY said was that you hate Laurie Penny and that you think women who get raped may be at fault for dressing provocatively or being in a bad neighbourhood. Very rape culture."

Ian5's picture

The strange thing about female dress at times, is that its purpose is to attract a mate.....

Susan O'Neill's picture

"How far do we go? Do we lie and tell women everything is fine? If a friend of mine decides to walk through a neighbourhood I know to be dangerous, should I refrain from warning them? because if I do and something happens, I'll have blamed them in advance?

We can't ignore facts in favour of ideology."

This. A thousand times this. Articles like Laurie's aren't just silly, they're actually dangerous.

Susan O'Neill's picture

"Classic derailing tactic *slow clap* Not only do you berate the author for assuming readers might have something to learn about sexism, you grossly perpetuate it yourself."

Ad hominem attacks don't help the cause as much as you think they do. It's not 'sexist' to call someone a girl if they are one, especially if they're acting in a manner even more juvenile than you'd expect from their age alone.

And if anyone reading the NS still needs to learn the lesson that rape is wrong, God help us all.

Only a Comment's picture

"Rapists are motivated by only by hatred and control. "

Nonsense.

Anonymous's picture

So one who insights/provokes bears NO responsibility then? I disagree.

In_Negative's picture

I don't know about this:

"sexual violence has little or nothing to do with physical attraction: rape is a weapon of war, a tool of humiliation, power and control."

The divorce of rape from sex has never seemed to me particularly helpful and seems itself to be bound up in a strategy of power rather than telling the truth. To say that rape is not about sex and attraction is every bit as absurd as saying that sex IS about sex and attraction. The removal of rape from sex has more to do with social necessity and politics than reality.

Regarding 'sexualised dress' momentarily, and how this plays in with rape, I think there are several ways. In the first place - I believe in both male and female sexual rape fantasy, blame is part of the technology of the sexual exchange. Part of the charm of rape's erotic function is the infliction of horror and responsibility on the victim - it doesn't seem in the least bit strange that these tendencies make their way into daily language and attitudes. There is a sexual charge in blaming the other or being blamed for what the other does to you.

Secondly, on revolutions with short skirts - to an extent, this too can be read in terms of power. The natural state of being for males in being attracted to women is one of pain - not life threatening pain - but pain all the same. Sexualized dress amplifies this dizzying need and in the hidden language of nature, speaks in different tongues to civilized nicities. 'Civilisation' (I quote the word cos we barely have one) governs how you gain access to the need and as such power asserts itself against desire's fulfillment and generally against the male. By this, amplifying sex on the body of a female is itself an act of power in that it increases male desire as the world continues to stifle it. A ubiquitous and endless 'strip-tease'. Looked at in that way, it seems obvious how rape fantasy is built around precisely that issue. To some extent short skirts are 'weapons of war' and too bound up in 'humiliation'.

Flashbuck's picture

I bet the author of this adolescent blog locks her car doors and hides valuable looking goods in the boot, while also closing the windows of her house or flat, etc. Why's that, eh?

HaHaHaHa - debate? Too easy!

In_Negative's picture

In brief:

1- Rape can't be divorced from sex and attraction - the divorce is itself political and power-based;
2- Blame has a sexual function and 'dress' is one method of producing 'blame' - there are a great many others.
3- Sexualised dress can be read as being about power and humiliation in the same way a strip-tease might be.

Gerry Tierney's picture

It's not my fault if I get assaulted, but I certainly haven't helped myself if I've swaggered through the bad part of town like I'm invincible beforehand.

Crime exists, to pretend you don't have a say in your own defence is utterly stupid.

You've lost it, Penny.

Jennifer at Uncharted Worlds's picture

Susan O'Neill writes:

"For God's sake, does ANYONE reading the New Statesman think it's okay to commit rape under ANY circumstances? No, of course not."

Are you for real?

You think *no-one reading this has ever raped*?

For real?

::speechless::

@ Dan:

"You can inform someone of a statistical reality without assigning blame to them."

I agree with that. Unfortunately it's not usually what happens in this area. "She was asking for it by x, y, z" is still very common, so if one doesn't want to be indirectly explaining to potential rapists "Here are the circumstances in which you can rape and get away with it", one has to be very, very careful in how one presents that kind of information.

Jennifer at Uncharted Worlds's picture

@ Susan O'Neill

Oh wait. I just re-read your comment. You didn't claim no-one reading this had raped, only that if they did rape they must have done so while not thinking it was OK (??).

Please correct me if I'm still misreading you, sorry I didn't get it the first time.

sianushka's picture

'These things don't "just happen" in disorderly situations. These things happen because some men believe that they have the right to police and punish the bodies of women.'

well said.

karen's picture

"It was the first inkling we got that there might be more to creating a free Egypt than ousting Hosni Mubarak."

Could have tried listening to Egyptian radicals saying exactly that, instead of pretending that 4Chan was the key to liberation.

Alex Baldwin's picture

@MsChin "No, I’m afraid it’s not an obvious factor. Sexual predators simply take advantage of individuals they can exploit. If provocative dress was a factor how would you explain those who sexually predate on the elderly or on infants?"

I never said that provocative dress in particular was a factor because I don't know whether that's true or not. In terms of behaviour: Capable adults can, to some extent, control how "exploitable" they are. Babies are not able to do so and are extremely vulnerable as a result.

littleZ's picture

The thing is, every comment here that replies: 'But we CAN'T tell people it's safe to wear short skirts..." makes one big assumption- that the myth that the mini-skirted get assaulted more is obviously true. Only it isn't. Most rape survivors were wearing jeans when it happened. And haven't they noticed the mentions of Egypt and the DRC in the article? Plenty of men there seem to cope pretty well there with getting through large amounts of fabric. If they're that way inclined, they know how a woman's body is made even it it's completely tented- they managed it fairly well here too before 1918 and calves first going on display.

As the first few comments said, the only increased risk of wearing a short skirt is victim-blaming. Not that it makes much difference to commenters here. It's not any fairer to say 'stick together, *ladies*'.... in fact, that's far more restrictive. Just think about that for a minute. All females should either assemble in groups, or at least fix themselves up with a chaperone, before stepping outdoors? So if femininity isn't treated as a very serious disability, they can't complain at mistreatment? So we can make strides in education, employment etc., but how exactly are we supposed to put them into practice if we can't actually go to them without assembling in a group first?

In_Negative's picture

And on a further note - given human history and all its natural animality, isn't all this thinking somewhat weak? By this, I mean aren't there just better ways of interacting with the possibilities of death and violence? Better responses than 'it shouldn't happen', 'it must be prevented' etc? I'm not convinced that such a fear of having to deal with trauma makes for a particularly respectable life. Hardly Jean Genet is it, this sort of anxiety?

Susan O'Neill's picture

"one big assumption- that the myth that the mini-skirted get assaulted more is obviously true. Only it isn't. Most rape survivors were wearing jeans when it happened."

Most. Not all. Nobody to my knowledge has ever asserted that dressing "provocatively" ALWAYS increases the risk. But equally, claiming that it NEVER does is naive to the point of reckless. Even if it's only a factor in, say, 2% of cases, are you happy to see those extra 2% of women raped, just so that you can go on demanding to where whatever you like whenever you like? I'm not.

Nobody is BLAMING the victims. It's incredible that intelligent adults still perpetuate this disgusting straw-man argument. It's never, ever, ever anyone's FAULT but the rapist. But if you cross the road without looking, you're more likely to get run over.

Charles's picture

Please don't wear a short skirt. Wear a burkha, dear. Keep short skirts for the pulchritudinous.

mazzawoo's picture

@Susan O'Neill "But if you cross the road without looking, you're more likely to get run over."

That's true, but it's also an accident where the driver had *no intent* to run the person over, so it's a bit of a ridiculous analogy.

Having said that, it's also ridiculous for me to try to change the opinions of a dyed-in-the-wool rape-myth apologist, too.

Herbert's picture

I notice from photographs that women in the Anarchist militia fighting in the Spanish war quite sensibly wore trousers. And they knew what Revolution really meant.

http://radicalhistorynetwork.blogspot.com/2011/06/meeting-spanish-revolu...

Taggart's picture

To what extent is the allure of the short skirt based on power and a sort of violence? I recognize that this is just a rephrasing of the eternally belittled: 'she knows what she's doing when she dressses like that', but I think the above makes sense of the remark and indeed the underlying violence in pretty much all sexual exchange. http://www.freearticleshq.net/

Dan Ladds's picture

littleZ:
"The thing is, every comment here that replies: 'But we CAN'T tell people it's safe to wear short skirts..." makes one big assumption- that the myth that the mini-skirted get assaulted more is obviously true. Only it isn't."

Which is why I don't support telling women what to wear. Whether walking down a dark alley, alone, at night will increase your probability of being sexually assaulted however, is a different matter (it's a definite yes - rapists prefer secluded areas to strike).

Susan O'Neill:
"Nobody is BLAMING the victims. It's incredible that intelligent adults still perpetuate this disgusting straw-man argument."

This is a valid point. While there are people elsewhere who do blame victims and that is a serious issue, that is simply not the case here; thus, it is a straw man to say that we are.

littleZ:
" It's not any fairer to say 'stick together, *ladies*'.... in fact, that's far more restrictive. Just think about that for a minute. All females should either assemble in groups, or at least fix themselves up with a chaperone, before stepping outdoors? So if femininity isn't treated as a very serious disability, they can't complain at mistreatment? So we can make strides in education, employment etc., but how exactly are we supposed to put them into practice if we can't actually go to them without assembling in a group first?"

I can't speak for others, but I'm certainly not saying that.

It's about combination of risk:

1) Going out on your own on in a good neighbourhood in the day time carries an acceptable risk in terms of probability of being attacked.

2) Going out on your own, at night, in a risky neighbourhood, carries an unacceptable risk. For most men as well as women.

and presenting factual information:

3) Where there is an unacceptable risk, information should be clearly provided to people about that risk.

4) Where information is provided it should not blame victims, but should present the reality about risk probability.

People should be free to do whatever the hell they like, but they should be given truthful information on risk when that risk is high.

In_Negative's picture

And a further question here:

If it's true that the male experiences desire through anguish and pain, to what extent do women erotisize their infliction of that pain? To what extent is the allure of the short skirt based on power and a sort of violence? I recognize that this is just a rephrasing of the eternally belittled: 'she knows what she's doing when she dressses like that', but I think the above makes sense of the remark and indeed the underlying violence in pretty much all sexual exchange.

Parasite's picture

This very article proves the complete and utter disconnect between the real revolutions in Egypt and elsewhere on the Arab Street, and the pretend student leftie squats at St Pauls and Wall Street. A guide on how to avoid rape is more than needed in the brutal dictatorships where rape will inevitably be used as a form of control. The women there will almost certainly be avoiding short skirts but protesting all the same, rather than saying "Sod it, if I can't go out in the middle of a revolution in a short skirt" as Laurie would.

But where are we expecting this in London? Probably, in the minds of the deluded "anti-capitalist" Tarquins and Sophies, it'll form part of the fabricated "police brutality" they like to witter about. In reality, there is no increased risk of rape to female protesters in London and these immature undergraduates are a million miles removed from those actually protesting for something - viz, freedom and an end to fear.

Sophie J's picture

Actually in a survey rapists have admitted themselves that they are more likely to rape a girl if she wears a skirt because it is easier to lift up a skirt than to pull down trousers. Nobody 'deserves' to get raped, but obviously you can make yourself less likely to get raped by taking precautions, as with any crime.

P.S Love "The victim's behaviour is obviously a factor in it occurring. If a person encased themself in concrete it would substantially decrease their risk of being raped."
Glad someone has a sense of humour.

In_Negative's picture

""one big assumption- that the myth that the mini-skirted get assaulted more is obviously true. Only it isn't. Most rape survivors were wearing jeans when it "

If you take the above hypothesis seriously - let's call it the 'InNegative Hypothosis' - then the effect of the mini-skirt as a sign is potentially more dangerous than the act of wearing one. You couldn't really count the statistical cost of that - how much rape is the result of hypersexualisation. Essentially, power creates counter-power.

Susan O'Neill's picture

"That's true, but it's also an accident where the driver had *no intent* to run the person over, so it's a bit of a ridiculous analogy."

It's an excellent analogy. No pedestrian is ever to blame for being knocked down. It's the responsibility of drivers to drive in such a manner that they can stop or take evasive action even if someone runs out in front of them. If they fail, THEY are to blame. They're the ones in control of the lethal weapon.

But nevertheless, if the pedestrian HAS run out without looking, they've made it more likely that they'll be run over. Is it their fault? No. I hope that thought comforts them in their hospital bed.

"Having said that, it's also ridiculous for me to try to change the opinions of a dyed-in-the-wool rape-myth apologist, too."

Sigh. Once again, I wish you understood just how much such idiotic comments undermine the fight to have rape treated more seriously.

Joe's picture

If I, as a man, wear a skirt, I will likely be assaulted in certain areas - for different reasons, but still assaulted. That doesn't mean it's my fault, but I'm still not going to wear one just because I think some people shouldn't act a certain way. The sad fact is that they do, and it would not be worth my being assaulted to stand up for a normative point. It is completely about risk and insurance. If I recommended women shouldn't wear certain clothing, it would be to reduce risk. A lot of people extrapolate a synthetic point from that, that there is a will to blame victims. I'm not sure that's true.

Fraziel1's picture

There is no point in discussing anything with Flashbuck. Even when he might have something meaningful to say ( and belive it or not i have agreed with the odd thing)the gratuitously offensive way in which he says it means no listens.He is a misanthrope with all the empathy of a concentration camp guard.

Fraziel1's picture

That should have said no one listens.

Barny's picture

Excellent piece Laurie. Sheesh there are some knobbish posters on here...

Yonmei's picture

Susan: "I wish you understood just how much such idiotic comments undermine the fight to have rape treated more seriously."

And yet, you've spent a lot of time in this comment-thread alone fighting hard to have rape taken less seriously, trying to claim that rape is somehow "caused" by the victim;s behaviour, rather than by the presence of a rapist. You're a rape apologist, part of the problem, not part of the solution.

Buckskins's picture

Mr. D. A few lessons on comedic license, you of all people should be familiar with the concept. I mean after all everything you say is a gut buster ya fat moonbeam chasing fruitcake.

DavidUK84's picture

How many rapes would there be if all women had a .38 or a 9mm in their purse? Time for people like Ms Penny to start agitating for the law abiding citizens right to carry weapons in self defence.

Or they can carry on repeating endless platitudes of feminist dogma. Whichever you think is more likely to scare a rapist.

Sarah's picture

Helping sluts see the light: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1_2LpLhOsc4

Susan O'Neill's picture

"And yet, you've spent a lot of time in this comment-thread alone fighting hard to have rape taken less seriously, trying to claim that rape is somehow "caused" by the victim;s behaviour"

Yeah, that's exactly the sort of idiocy I mean. What I *actually* said was "It's never, ever, ever anyone's fault but the rapist." Pretty unambiguous, I'd say.

And yet, in your twisted world of blind dogmatic ideology, somehow you've managed to hear "It's sometimes the victim's fault", despite that being the *exact diametric opposite* of what I said.

There's simply no point arguing with stupidity like that. Which is why nobody listens to you, and why we still live in a world where rape needs to be taken more seriously.

If you want to make a difference, it helps not to be an obvious idiot.

vildechaye's picture

When Laurie Penny has a teenage daughter and still scoffs at the advice of "well-meaning men", I take her words at face value. Until then, it's just posturing

Bee's picture

''The Ken Clarke uproar wrecently as a prime example of their idiocy. He was absolutely bang on with his comments but the silly feminists were practically burning their bras in protest''

I think people were upset with Mr Clarke's language. I mean he used words like ''serious rape'', ''proper rape'' and ''classic rape''. I means seriously ''classic'', you would think he was describing a car, rather than a terrible crime.

Yonmei's picture

"What I *actually* said was "It's never, ever, ever anyone's fault but the rapist."

What you ACTUALLY said was quite a bit more than that, Susan! You began by lecturing us on how we shouldn't talk about how men police and punish women, because that's "divisive specifics".

Then you moved on to assert how not one of the men reading the New Statesman could at any point ever consider it okay to commit rape. So presumably, any woman who identifies a man as a rapist, if that man shows he's been reading the New Stateman, you'll just write that woman off as a liar, because you KNOW that men who read the NS don't commit rape.

You then moved on to call Laurie "silly little student girl" and to accuse her of "debasing the movement". Engaging in divisive, abusive politics is hardly helpful, is it? Try to engage politely.

You are part of rape culture. Your attack on the concept - your fury with Laurie Penny for identifying the concept - is indicative, as are your later attempts to try to claim that women who dress in short skirts are somehow to blame for a rapist attacking them

Yonmei's picture

And that was just your first comment on the thread! Your next comment on the thread both attacked Laurie Penny AND victim-blamed women who were dressed wrong or in the wrong place, claiming that "Articles like Laurie's aren't just silly, they're actually dangerous" - because they encourage women to think of rapists as to blame for rape, rather than women's behaviour?

So what you ACTUALLY said was that you hate Laurie Penny and that you think women who get raped may be at fault for dressing provocatively or being in a bad neighbourhood. Very rape culture.

Yonmei's picture

"and why we still live in a world where rape needs to be taken more seriously."

So why are you spending so much time spitting vitriol at a writer who does take rape seriously and arguing that women ought to police their own dress and behaviour to avoid getting raped? You seem to be stuck in your own ideological bubble, hating on Laurie Penny and wanting to believe that rape victims are at fault for how they dressed.

If you want to make a difference, it helps not to sound like the people who you hate most are feminists who want to make a difference.

Alex Baldwin's picture

"... trying to claim that rape is somehow "caused" by the victim;s behaviour, rather than by the presence of a rapist."

The victim's behaviour is obviously a factor in it occurring. If a person encased themself in concrete it would substantially decrease their risk of being raped. The existence of rapists creates a world consisting of areas and timeframes that have a variable likelihood of having a rape occur in them. It is a facile and obvious statement to say that ideally this would not be the case. Until that state can be achieved it's going to have to be up to (informed) people to decide what they consider to be an acceptable risk. These calculations are not unique to rape, but are in fact made in many circumstances.

You could draw a (far) less contentious analogy with talking loudly into an iPhone. People should be free to do this in a public place, but there are places and times where to do so would be very ill-advised. This is because of crime. I would be interested to hear whether Yonmei's arguments uniquely apply to rape.

Regardless, the above still does not normally create a situation where a person could be blamed for being raped. In cases where there was a time and place that rape was gauranteed and an element of choice involved in going there it gets a bit weird, but those don't exist in the world anyway.

Susan O'Neill's picture

"because you KNOW that men who read the NS don't commit rape."

Oh good grief. Once again, you put words in my mouth which were neither said nor implied. Do you actually need me here to conduct this argument at all, or are you fine with doing both sides by yourself?

"So why are you spending so much time spitting vitriol at a writer who does take rape seriously"

Because she might be taking it seriously, but she's handling it in a dangerously juvenile, ideologically-driven and - by far the worst - counterproductive way. She's not just failing to help, she's making things worse.

But hey, why bother arguing? After all, disagreeing with a woman is basically rape, isn't it? I guess in many ways, I'm a rapist too.

:(

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