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Thatcher the gay icon

  • Posted by Brian Coleman
  • 25 June 2007

'There are many gay Tory men who would like to sleep with David Cameron but it is Lady Thatcher whose portrait hangs over their bed'

Central London was awash with celebration the other Sunday afternoon. On Horse Guards Parade Falklands veterans marked the Silver Jubilee of Mrs Thatcher's glorious victory and in the Ritz Hotel the Conservative Leader of Westminster City Council sealed his civil partnership with his fellow Councillor and Chief Whip.

In a vision in fuchsia pink Mrs Thatcher was the only dignitary to receive an ovation as she arrived on the reviewing dais and as she left the Victoria Memorial later in the afternoon (on the arm of Tony Blair) she was mobbed by ex-soldiers and the crowd in a slightly sedater version of Tom Cruise working a Leicester Square Premier.

At the Ritz over the jam and scones, Tory Grandees, ex-lord mayors, young, thrusting Westminster City Councillors and the odd Rabbi joined Sir Simon Milton and his partner Councillor Robert Davis' family and friends to wish them well and to prove how the Conservative Party has embraced the Gay equality agenda. In Sir Simon's speech he revealed that they had been a couple for 19 years having met at the height of the Thatcher Government.

In my experience many of the gay Politicians in the Tory party (a not inconsiderable number) joined the Conservative party and became active during the Thatcher years. Whilst her government acquired an unfortunate reputation for not being gay friendly, the notorious and unnecessary Section 28 (under which no one was ever prosecuted) did serious damage to the equality agenda.

However, whilst the underlying ethos of Thatcherism (based on individual liberty) might well be pro-gay it was Mrs T's personality which attracted so many homosexual men to the party. In a profession dominated by men with dandruff and hair coming out of their noses or women who appear to have been dragged through a hedge backwards (a la Shirley Williams), the pure elegance, feminine perfection, perfect dress sense, and sheer determination to change society drew many gay men to the Iron Lady.

Whilst her government might have had an anti-gay aura there was simply nothing in her personal attitude to demonstrate any prejudice, she appointed gay ministers including the tragic Earl of Avon (son of ex-Prime Minister Anthony Eden) who was one of the earliest victims of Aids.

On the subject of Aids it was her government with Norman Fowler as Health Secretary which faced the issue head on and refused to take a "moral" tone on public information and prevention work.

Since Lady Thatcher was stabbed in the back by a cabal of straight men in 1990 she has gone through her "Norma Desmond" phase ("it was Politics that got small" and has emerged as a worthy successor to the late Queen Mother as the Nation's favourite relic of a bygone era. In that pantheon of gay icons, abused by straight men, that includes Marilyn Monroe and Judy Garland, Margaret Thatcher has it all, beauty and brains.

There are many gay Tory men who would like to sleep with David Cameron but it is Lady Thatcher whose portrait hangs over their bed!

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8 comments from readers

GraemeArcher
25 June 2007 at 19:25

Hmm. I don't intend rudeness, but I don't get this at all, honestly. Perhaps it's a class thing. I came to my gay (Tory) consciousness in the 80s - thanks to the egregious Section 28 - which can't be passed of as some sort of unfortunate event., You are quite right to weigh against that the astonishingly effective work spearheaded by Normal Fowler as the response to AIDS. But don't you think that to go on about either the clothes worn by Mrs T, or to pretend she's some sort of diva, is - I don't want to say "offensive" and sound all guardian-esque - perhaps needlessly 'cliched'?

harry greenwood
26 June 2007 at 04:20

The Falklands War was a travisty and Mrs Thatcher in an attempt to restore British Imperialism and her 19thcentury mentality deserves no laurels.

jfk2611
26 June 2007 at 11:16

Mr's T could have made an impact in Northern Ireland but her Iron Lady approach didn't help matters there. IMO she should't ever be mentioned in the same sentence as the Queen Mother unless by way of a contrast. The idea of finding Mrs T endearing is not one I'd embrace.

Colonel Blimp
26 June 2007 at 12:41

I find this article ironic because I would like to sleep with Lady Thatcher yet it is David Cameron's portrait which hangs over my bed. He went to Eton you know.

alonorbach
26 June 2007 at 17:51

This revisionist attempt to portray Thatcher as a gay icon is utter nonsense. But trying to brush off Section 28 as a merely "unnecessary" act in contemptible.

Thatcher may have spawned right-wing followers that grace the town halls of London, but that have done next to nothing in the fight for equality, and just attempt to defend Thatchers awful record on gay rights.

And to claim that the Conservatives have now embraced equality is mad! After all, a recent poll on ConservativeHome showed that two-thirds of its readers would not attend a Civil Partnership even if it a close friend's. Lovely bunch they are!

Banner
27 June 2007 at 13:37

Alon is quite right. Coleman is whitewashing the Tories' homophobia which others, outside the Tory party, had to confront. The struggle for lesbian and gay equality was conducted by the lesbian and gay communities themselves, and with political support from politicians who were denounced as loony left for their efforts.

But Coleman himself, even as an out-gay politician, has a pretty poor record.

He denounced Ken Livingstone's introduction of the civil partnerships register in London - the first in Britain - as: 'Pointless gesture politics from a Mayor of London who seems totally unable to cope with the major issues he faces and settles for cheap photo opportunities instead.' (This is Local London, 10 September 2001)

He also attacked Ken Livingstone for defending lesbian and gay rights in Eastern europe, saying 'this is a perfect example of how trivial the Mayor has become.'

http://www.pinknews.co.uk/news/articles/2005-2263.html]

It is fortunate that Coleman's party is not occupying the mayoralty.

angrywelshman
27 June 2007 at 23:43

Coleman you digust me, why don't you run for mayor? You'd be doing all the sane people a favour.

YM
24 December 2008 at 18:06

As somebody mentioned, this is classic revisionism. See the conflation of two sets of ideas - "Thatcher broadly supported individual liberty ... ergo, she must have supported gay rights (she just didn't show it very well)". And as a gay person myself I resent the idea of homosexuals being drawn to politicians by their dress sense. Backwards rubbish.

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Brian Coleman

Brian Coleman was first elected to the London Assembly in June 2000. Widely outspoken he is best known for his groundbreaking policy of removing traffic calming measures

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