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A Catholic Confirmation

  • Posted by Andy Lewis
  • 01 May 2008

In our final Faith Column on coming of age, we look at confirmation. Typically it happens at 15 or 16 and is a chance for young Christians make their personal commitment

When I teach about vocation at school, I often get asked by young students questions such as "How do you hear God's call?" or "How do you know when God is calling you?"

I find it a challenge to answer these kinds of questions, as there is no really satisfying answer for young, inquisitive minds. For me, I know I was certainly not ready to hear any kind of call in my life, from God - or anyone else for that matter - before I began preparing for my confirmation aged sixteen. It was at this point I started to discover a very real and personal faith, something which has already determined many important aspects of my life.

In England and Wales, the current trend is to confirm those aged around fifteen or sixteen. The parents make the choice for their son or daughter to receive the sacraments of Baptism and Holy Communion. However, at Confirmation, the personal commitment of the candidate is vitally important. It is the opportunity to reaffirm baptismal promises and confirm belief in the Catholic Church in front of family, friends and, most importantly, God.

The candidates for confirmation make it clear that they believe in God the father, Jesus his son and the Holy Spirit. They ask for strength and courage to live as Jesus would want them to and to tell other people about their faith. In order to prepare for this commitment the young people will attend a series of sessions of preparation within the parish at the direction of a group of a catechists and their parish priest. All have to be convinced of the candidates' dedication and willingness before putting any person forward for confirmation.

It is usual for the Bishop to confirm candidates for Confirmation, however for practical reasons, permission is given to the parish priest to carry out the sacrament on Pentecost Sunday. After renewing baptismal promises, the Bishop will stretch his hands out over the heads of the candidates as he prays that God will send His Holy Spirit to be 'helper and guide' to the candidates. This also signifies that the candidate is given the special job of living in keeping with the Gospel values.

After this, candidates are anointed in the sign of the cross with the Oil of Chrism. This is an ancient sign of being chosen by God and the same oil used at Baptism, Ordination and during the Sacrament of the Sick. It symbolises becoming a full member of the Church and a true child of God. It is also a sign of being given strength and is associated with healing.

The seven Gifts of the Holy Spirit are received at Confirmation and these are to help the now full member of the Church live the true Christian life and follow the guidance of the Holy Spirit. They complete and perfect the virtues of those who receive them as well as help make important decisions and appreciate the greatness of God. From these Gifts of wisdom, understanding, right judgement, courage, knowledge, reverence and awe and wonder are produced the twelve virtues of the Fruits of the Holy Spirit. When an individual is living a loving, joyful, peaceful, patient, kind, good, generous, gentle, faithful, modest, self-controlled, chaste and pure existence these fruit are fully borne. Confirmation comes at a time when these teenage candidates need guidance. This is a world in which materialism is widely embraced, there are liberal sexual morals as well as many other pressures and it is these Gifts which are there to guide the newly confirmed Catholic.

Even at the end of the program of preparation, even the recently confirmed may struggle to explain the exact effect the sacrament has had on their lives. That is because they are only really at the start of their personal journey of faith. The young person has just reached the stage where they are ready to start listening to the call of the Holy Spirit in their lives. I know my vocation is constantly changing; so far it has involved teaching in a Catholic school, working with street-children in Ethiopia, years of youth work within my Diocese and undertaking the role of Catechist within my own parish hoping to pass on my faith and inspire others. I know when there are difficult choices to make that the Gifts I received through my confirmation are there to guide me and bring me closer to God.

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3 comments from readers

Douglas Chalmers
11 May 2008 at 01:36

How do you justify an un-spiritual pope with a Neocon agenda?

Marie Donnelly
30 May 2008 at 22:15

An interesting reminiscence of my own confirmation many years ago. I am now lapsed and do not consider myself a Catholic (to do so would not do justice to real believers, and I would not like to do them this disservice). However this interesting article has set me to remembering...

I recall my confirmation somewhat differently, and in comparasin with that described here, sadly. My confirmation, in an ex-mining village in the north of england, was very much a rite of passage, but not a particularly religious one. The issue being, that at the tender age of 15, we were still in the grip of our parents, and having grown up in a Catholic community, surrounded by like minded people, we knew little else and went to our confirmation classes simply because we were told to, and everyone else did.

Despite my current lapsed, somewhat agnostic state, I found my spirituality, and my relationship with God much later than this, when I went off to university at 18. Having been surrounded by Catholicism and its mores my entire life, it was a culture shock to a) be in the minority in being religious at Uni, and b) to be looked down upon by many 'Christians' of other denominations for being so. My real encounters with God, and my personal exploration of and relationship with the spiritual began there, when I was surrounded by diversity and people of many (and no) faiths.

An interesting trip down memory lane. Good luck helping your youngsters find their own path Andy, whatever it might be for them.

OneUnderGod
04 June 2008 at 07:13

Confirmation cant come with a set age ,it comes when we know our Masters voice [even the beast in a stable knows its masters voice].

My own confirmation of the living loving god of grace occured when i realised all good [all life ] comes from god.

In knowing my fathers voice i just need to know his voice dosnt ask us to die or take life or property [is not god the giver of all life ,does god not own all property ; all creation?

Is it not logical that logus [logic] be revealed by our [of our own freewill choice to serve

[indeed to love gods good [life and love ,] is as simple as hearing the [his voice] in our concious to be all loving , all grace , all mercy ,all good .

We all have freewill [our confirmation comes when we KNOW our living god reveals his good grace [love] to eaxch of of EVERY living moment of out lives ,in every living moment [

BUT the living [loving god is in that small still voice] of good concience ,in us all ,thus even evil loves its own , but good can love all life [like god does with grace mercy and truth

[any bad isnt from gods love][for god only wants good life for all his children [and who is not a child of god?]

To teach our children the simple truth [and power] to chose the good [love god ;love neighbour]

To give aid and comfort ,

to love serving others

to see not only gods light sustains life]

God [our small still voice asks us to respect ALL LIFE ,because only god did give it ,and only we can chose to serve it or kill it [our choices are our fruit] to whome much is given much is expected.

but that ye did to the least you did to god

[good fruit] to ye have more shall be given

but ye that have not shall be taken ,even that still s,mall voice of concience

believe me when the small still voice is stilled we enter hell

[not by threat , spite [or judgment ] but because we know our masters voice not ,and simply drove him away ,

but know god loves a repentant heart ,its never too late to begin to hear your voice of conscience ,

but it must be by our freewill choice [doing good for itself ,not to get some loophole ,for what is salt that has lost its passion

god love us ALL

live with that '

its not worth dying over

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About the writer

Andy Lewis is a Cambridge University graduate who has been teaching Religious Studies for two years in a Roman Catholic Comprehensive in Chelmsford, Essex. He is a practicing Catholic and catechist in the parish of Our Lady Immaculate and Holy Name, Chelmsford. His additional interests include travelling to Lourdes with the HCPT, volunteering with CAFOD and youth work with the Diocese youth service (BCYS).

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